Recognizing Our Flaws: How to Stop Self-Sabotaging
Reflecting on Brexit taught me a valuable lesson about self-sabotage, which often stems from our emotional reactions like fear and greed. These emotions can cloud our judgment and lead to regrets. I’ve witnessed this in my own journey with Financial Samurai, especially regarding online presence and control over content.
Why Claim Your Name Online
Owning your brand online is crucial. Why let social media giants like Facebook or LinkedIn control how you appear on search engines? These platforms make billions by hosting user-generated content for free, leveraging our efforts for their profit.
Challenging the Status Quo
I’ve always enjoyed challenging the notion that certain things are impossible. This mindset led to the creation of Financial Samurai, inspired by the ease of starting websites on platforms like WordPress.
Riding Solo
From 2009 to 2015, Financial Samurai thrived without major social media help or paid advertising. Growth was organic, fueled by search engines and word of mouth. My goal was to keep discussions on my site to retain control and not spread myself too thin across platforms that didn’t compensate me for my content.
The Shift in Perspective
However, my perspective has evolved. Financial Samurai has matured into a stable entity with solid profit margins. It’s no longer about the hustle of a startup but maintaining and leveraging existing platforms for further growth. Successful companies understand the power of leveraging these platforms rather than avoiding them.
Missed Opportunities
Reflecting on the past, I realize that neglecting to create a Financial Samurai Facebook page early on was a form of self-sabotage driven by laziness and stubbornness. The potential growth and revenue from having a strong social media presence were significant opportunities I missed.
Admitting Faults
To grow, it’s important to acknowledge our shortcomings. Here are mine:
– Overconfidence and a know-it-all attitude have sometimes led me astray.
– Excessive pride makes it difficult for me to seek help or accept gifts.
– Stubbornness has prevented me from adapting and leveraging tools like Facebook, which dominates the media space.
Ultimately, creating the Financial Samurai Facebook page has opened new doors. It’s a platform for connecting with readers and sharing content more dynamically, like videos or live chats.
Looking Forward
Everyone should take the time to reflect on personal barriers to success. For those heavily involved in social media, consider directing some of that effort towards creating and growing your own platforms. Just as everyone at Facebook benefits from user-generated content, you too can harness the internet to build and control your own brand.
If you’re considering starting a website, remember that it’s more than just an online presence; it’s a step towards financial independence and living a life with purpose.
