If you’re chasing your dreams, go all in and don’t look back. Don’t let regret become a part of your story, like it did for me, as I often think back to things I didn’t do more than those I tried. Along the way, you’ll encounter doubters—the same ones from your school days who tried to pull you down to make themselves feel better. But don’t let them derail you. They don’t disappear as you age; they just shift their playground from the schoolyard to the internet, criticizing everything from your parenting choices to your career moves.
Let me give you an example. When I proposed a financially prudent strategy for my kids’ future, the naysayers were quick to call me obsessive. Even when I adjusted my career plans due to economic shifts, critics online had a field day. It’s ironic, really, considering how challenging life has become, blending easier access to information with harder economic realities. As a parent, it’s my duty to equip my children to navigate this world, until they can stand strong on their own.
Many readers here aspire to transform their lives but hold back, fearing ridicule or judgment. Some have even started bold ventures only to retract into the shadows after criticism, much like a critic of mine who shut down his website after I tried to engage with him. Here’s the thing: being deeply invested in your passions is not a flaw. It’s a strength. Those who throw stones often do so because they’re either too scared to chase their own dreams or are frightened by the thought of your success.
I’ve revisited my motivations for maintaining this blog, especially after the pandemic sapped much of my energy. I used to prep posts with tireless precision the night before, but now, I allow myself more flexibility. Despite feeling drained at times, the criticism I receive strangely recharges me. So, bring it on—whether you’re a supporter or a skeptic, your feedback fuels me to keep pushing forward, ensuring I don’t become complacent, especially since I have two young kids to think about until at least 2037!
As for those who doubted me along the way—from my days on the tennis court dealing with dismissive teammates to my early blogging efforts that colleagues mocked—each challenge only added fuel to my fire. They doubted, and I pushed harder. Today, my blog stands as a testament to following one’s vision, often surpassing the narrow confines of a traditional career both in satisfaction and financial success.
In sum, chase your dreams with ferocity. Use criticism as a catalyst. Remember, the most vocal critics often reflect their own fears and insecurities. Stay true to your course, and perhaps most importantly, let your actions speak louder than any words thrown your way.
