I recently got a capital distribution from a private real estate fund, and the timing was perfect. After buying a new home in October 2023, my finances were stretched thin, like a lake drying up after years without rain. On top of that, unexpected demands for funds from various private investments added more stress. As the main provider for my family, I was on edge for six months, worried that any big expense could push us into high-interest debt.

Thankfully, a capital distribution of $105,951.76 has eased this pressure significantly. My original investment was $47,000, which turned out to be a smart move with an annual return of about 12.2% over seven years.

Here’s why it’s smart to treat your investments like regular expenses, to invest in private funds and companies, to think carefully before making large purchases like homes or cars, and to always be prepared for unexpected changes:

Investing Smartly

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Two years out of college, I tricked myself into saving by treating investments like monthly expenses. This strategy helped me curb my spending on unnecessary luxuries, like a motorbike I barely knew how to ride, and a car I didn’t need in a city with great public transit. Despite these early missteps, I learned to manage my finances better after the dot-com crash and losing my job forced me to reevaluate my financial strategy.

Since 2003, I’ve allocated 15-20% of my investable assets into private equity and real estate, accepting that these investments lock up my capital for 5-10 years without any guarantee of returns. It’s like waiting for a movie to come out on Netflix instead of seeing it in theaters—patience saves money in the long run.

Weathering Unexpected Expenses

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After buying a house, every new expense felt like a stroke of bad luck. A car repair here, a maintenance issue there—it all adds up, and feels worse when your cash flow is tight. Then, a double capital call from a venture debt fund I invested in seemed like another curse. However, these expenses would have happened regardless of the house purchase; it was just the timing that made them feel overwhelming.

The Thrill of Receiving Capital Distributions

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Getting a capital distribution always brings a mix of surprise and relief. After making private investments, it’s easy to forget about them because you don’t manage the money daily like you would with stocks. So when a distribution finally comes, it feels like winning the lottery, especially if you had written off the investment.

Investing for the Future

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Since starting to invest in a private real estate fund in 2016, a lot has changed. The fund has seen successes and failures, with some investments in properties like office buildings hit hard by shifts like the slow return to office work post-COVID. These experiences underline the importance of diversified investments and being prepared for any outcome.

Having kids also changed my financial priorities. What once went into investments now goes towards raising my family. Yet, these capital distributions reaffirm that early investments can support future needs, like my children’s upbringing.

Keep Investing with a Long-Term View

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Investing wisely means preparing for an unknown future. Whether it’s setting aside funds in high-yield accounts or investing in markets with growth potential, the goal is to build a solid financial foundation. In the next few years, I plan to increase my liquidity and invest in areas with potential for high returns, like private AI companies.

Overall, maintaining a diverse investment portfolio and ensuring you have enough liquidity for emergencies are crucial. It’s not just about growing wealth but also about securing your financial future against unexpected challenges. Here’s to hoping for more positive surprises like capital distributions that can make a big difference when you need it most.