Many folks have advised me to move to a less expensive area to save money, but I’m not convinced. I believe the buzz of big city life justifies the cost. I was born in Manila and have lived in several large cities including Lusaka, Kobe, Kuala Lumpur, Taipei, New York City, and now San Francisco. Big cities are what I know best. Having spent my entire life in urban environments, except for a brief stint during high school in the quiet suburb of McLean, Virginia, I’ve always found cities more vibrant and fitting for my lifestyle.
I particularly remember moving from a small town to the thrilling environment of New York City. Living there was the highlight of my life, filled with endless activities and vibrant energy, especially in my early years working on Wall Street. The city never sleeps, and neither did I, thriving on the non-stop lifestyle.
However, moving to San Francisco was a significant change. It felt quieter and the pace was more relaxed compared to New York. While initially a bit of a letdown, I grew to appreciate San Francisco’s balance between work and leisure, offering a blend of professional opportunities and personal enjoyment like skiing in Tahoe or playing tennis in mild weather.
What I’ve learned from my experiences is that big cities offer unmatched energy and opportunities that are hard to find elsewhere. They’re perfect for those who love the hustle and crave the cultural, social, and economic opportunities only metropolises can offer. Even though the cost of living can be high, the trade-offs are worth it for the lifestyle and opportunities provided.
In conclusion, living in a big city might not be for everyone, but for me, it’s about more than just the costs—it’s about the experiences and opportunities that shape your life. Whether it’s the constant buzz, the professional opportunities, or the cultural experiences, the benefits of big city living continue to outweigh the downsides for me.
